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In your 20's you hustle hard, learn fast, network heavy and listen a lot. Save your money, hoard your cash and invest in tangible things that appreciate in value.Take risks and If you decide to date and marry make sure he or she is financially responsible and both of you are on the same page for the future. If not, move away and stay single. ɪɴ ᴍʏ ғᴇᴇʟɪɴɢs™ ✨🛒

Understanding that people are human. everyone has the capability of bad behavior. even despicable behavior. So, you shouldn’t be suprised when you encounter people that are selfish, arrogant, and liars. You should train yourself to expect these human traits, because it helps prevent unnecessary crashouts. Your roommate can be messy, a friend can act jealous, a teacher can be unfair, your partner can be selfish, and you can address that, but you shouldn't spend hours thinking about why they would do that. its useless. people get jealous and are selfish. Anyways, you should expect misbehaviour, but you shouldn't excuse it. ɪɴ ᴍʏ ғᴇᴇʟɪɴɢs™ ✨🛒

THINGS YOU PROBABLY WON'T REGRET. Studying more. Reading more books. Drinking more water. Making new friends. Being more honest. Following your passion. Going to bed early. Meditating more. Quitting a job you absolutely hate. Being kind to a stranger. Taking a break when you need one. Listening to your heart. Looking after your body. Crying when you need to. Putting yourself first. Leaving your comfort zone when you need to. Hugging someone you love. Going on more adventure. Accepting your imperfections. Telling your loved ones how much you care about them. Understanding your emotions. Taking care of your mental health. Trusting your intuition. Letting go of toxic people. Finding your purpose. Loving yourself more. ɪɴ ᴍʏ ғᴇᴇʟɪɴɢs™ ✨🛒

Judging myself by my process, not by what happens to me. I used to place way too much merit on my achievements, believing that they defined me. but to be real, nobody can guarantee they will get into their dream college, get hired to their dream job, win a competition, or beat someone at a sport. What you can guarantee is how much you studied, if you practiced, whether you asked for help, if you were brave even when you were afraid, or if you quit and didn’t show up. So for me its never "I have to succeed," I just force myself to behave in the way that makes success happen. ɪɴ ᴍʏ ғᴇᴇʟɪɴɢs™ ✨🛒

You asked for the opportunity, and now it's demanding everything from you. You asked for the change, and now it's uncomfortable in ways you didn't prepare for. That discomfort isn't a sign something went wrong. That's exactly what receiving what you asked for feels like. The gift and the weight arrive in the same box. Carry it. You ordered this. ɪɴ ᴍʏ ғᴇᴇʟɪɴɢs™ ✨🛒